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		<title>Comment on Two critical parts to making tough decisions by chris</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/two-critical-parts-to-making-tough-decisions/#comment-4746</link>
		<dc:creator>chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2015 13:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[hi Gai, 

I love the iceberg image on this page. do you have it larger that i could use as a desktop wallpaper? 

BTW how much do you charge for coaching? 

I just found your site through a google image search, but would love to do some coaching if its affordable... 

Cheers :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi Gai, </p>
<p>I love the iceberg image on this page. do you have it larger that i could use as a desktop wallpaper? </p>
<p>BTW how much do you charge for coaching? </p>
<p>I just found your site through a google image search, but would love to do some coaching if its affordable&#8230; </p>
<p>Cheers <img src='http://www.coaching.net.nz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on How do values impact on employee commitment? by Gai Foskett</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/how-do-values-impact-on-employee-commitment/#comment-2783</link>
		<dc:creator>Gai Foskett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2014 01:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree Ben and there is a lot of neuro science behind what you did. Our social brains need to feel connected and &#039;wanted&#039; by others. Being present ( listening as you described) to others is a powerful way to lead ....]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree Ben and there is a lot of neuro science behind what you did. Our social brains need to feel connected and &#8216;wanted&#8217; by others. Being present ( listening as you described) to others is a powerful way to lead &#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do values impact on employee commitment? by Ben Simonton</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/how-do-values-impact-on-employee-commitment/#comment-2782</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben Simonton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2014 16:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the thanks, Gai.

For me it was not about being vulnerable. I was just trying to do better. During my first 12 years, I had to admit that I was not effective in significantly raising the performance of my lowest and mid-level performer. 

I was using a form of the command and control approach I was taught at the US Naval Academy. So I decided to add listening to my daily routine. As I did this, their performance rose. The more I did it the more their performance rose. In an 18 month period, my ship went from being one of the worst to one of the best and performance was about two times higher than I thought humanly possible. Wow! Eventually I as able to raise their performance to a level four times higher than I thought humanly possible.

Eventually, by listening and analyzing what I heard I was able to discover the science of people, why they react the way they do to what management does and does not do. This science makes clear exactly what leadership is and what actions will and will not lead people to unleash their full potential. Managing people became really easy for me and lots of fun.

Thanks for listening, Ben]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the thanks, Gai.</p>
<p>For me it was not about being vulnerable. I was just trying to do better. During my first 12 years, I had to admit that I was not effective in significantly raising the performance of my lowest and mid-level performer. </p>
<p>I was using a form of the command and control approach I was taught at the US Naval Academy. So I decided to add listening to my daily routine. As I did this, their performance rose. The more I did it the more their performance rose. In an 18 month period, my ship went from being one of the worst to one of the best and performance was about two times higher than I thought humanly possible. Wow! Eventually I as able to raise their performance to a level four times higher than I thought humanly possible.</p>
<p>Eventually, by listening and analyzing what I heard I was able to discover the science of people, why they react the way they do to what management does and does not do. This science makes clear exactly what leadership is and what actions will and will not lead people to unleash their full potential. Managing people became really easy for me and lots of fun.</p>
<p>Thanks for listening, Ben</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do values impact on employee commitment? by Gai Foskett</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/how-do-values-impact-on-employee-commitment/#comment-2779</link>
		<dc:creator>Gai Foskett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2014 21:59:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for your insights Ben and sharing your approaches to such high performance in so many ways.  Interesting to hear you talk about weaning yourself off the leadership industry. Sort of &#039;letting go&#039; of old thinking and being &#039;vulnerable&#039; enough to stop and really listen to others. Being  vulnerable I believe can take great courage. Your success and experiences are a loud endorsement for other leaders to stop and really, really listen and connect with their people in order to unleash everyone&#039;s flow and potential. Inspiring. Thanks Ben.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your insights Ben and sharing your approaches to such high performance in so many ways.  Interesting to hear you talk about weaning yourself off the leadership industry. Sort of &#8216;letting go&#8217; of old thinking and being &#8216;vulnerable&#8217; enough to stop and really listen to others. Being  vulnerable I believe can take great courage. Your success and experiences are a loud endorsement for other leaders to stop and really, really listen and connect with their people in order to unleash everyone&#8217;s flow and potential. Inspiring. Thanks Ben.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How do values impact on employee commitment? by Ben Simonton</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/how-do-values-impact-on-employee-commitment/#comment-2774</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben Simonton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2014 13:45:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found it relatively easy to change an organization from extremely low performance to extremely high performance through values.

Our values are what we all use to decide what to do and how we react to what we experience. When we work for a company whose culture closely aligns with our own values, we become emotionally driven to throw everything we have at our work – all our creativity, innovation and productivity as well as all of our energy, knowledge, experience, and intelligence. 

So the truth is that values and behavior drive culture, culture drives employee engagement, employee engagement drives customer satisfaction and customer satisfaction drives shareholder value. When workplace culture (its values and behaviors) violate our own values, poor performance is the result.

How did I accomplish alignment as an executive? First, I listened to employees more than enough to satisfy their need to be heard. Second, I responded to what they said (their complaints, suggestions, and questions) to their satisfaction or better even if it meant telling them why they could not have what they wanted. Some people were satisfied with a mid level standard, some only by the highest standard of a particular value. Listening and responding to the satisfaction of all employees caused management to raise standards to a level everyone greatly respected. 

That achieved alignment and led everyone to unleash their full potential on their work. This was managerial and workforce nirvana. Productivity rose over 300% per person and everyone loved to come to work.

I did this more than once. Of course, I did not start there, but had to wean myself off the teachings of the leadership industry in order to start listening to my people.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found it relatively easy to change an organization from extremely low performance to extremely high performance through values.</p>
<p>Our values are what we all use to decide what to do and how we react to what we experience. When we work for a company whose culture closely aligns with our own values, we become emotionally driven to throw everything we have at our work – all our creativity, innovation and productivity as well as all of our energy, knowledge, experience, and intelligence. </p>
<p>So the truth is that values and behavior drive culture, culture drives employee engagement, employee engagement drives customer satisfaction and customer satisfaction drives shareholder value. When workplace culture (its values and behaviors) violate our own values, poor performance is the result.</p>
<p>How did I accomplish alignment as an executive? First, I listened to employees more than enough to satisfy their need to be heard. Second, I responded to what they said (their complaints, suggestions, and questions) to their satisfaction or better even if it meant telling them why they could not have what they wanted. Some people were satisfied with a mid level standard, some only by the highest standard of a particular value. Listening and responding to the satisfaction of all employees caused management to raise standards to a level everyone greatly respected. </p>
<p>That achieved alignment and led everyone to unleash their full potential on their work. This was managerial and workforce nirvana. Productivity rose over 300% per person and everyone loved to come to work.</p>
<p>I did this more than once. Of course, I did not start there, but had to wean myself off the teachings of the leadership industry in order to start listening to my people.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Free Values clarifying tool by How do values impact on employee commitment? &#124; Executive,Business,Leadership &#38; Life Coaching from Gai Foskett</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/free-values-clarifying-tool/#comment-2771</link>
		<dc:creator>How do values impact on employee commitment? &#124; Executive,Business,Leadership &#38; Life Coaching from Gai Foskett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2014 04:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] values I can help. Just email me gai@coaching.net.nz  or go to the contact page. You can also go here to read more about personal Values and download a  free tool to start on clarifying your own [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] values I can help. Just email me <a href="mailto:gai@coaching.net.nz">gai@coaching.net.nz</a>  or go to the contact page. You can also go here to read more about personal Values and download a  free tool to start on clarifying your own [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on What we can learn from astronauts when they go blind in space by Gai Foskett</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/what-we-can-learn-from-astronauts-when-they-go-blind-in-space/#comment-2408</link>
		<dc:creator>Gai Foskett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 21:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree Gina. Also a powerful and inspiring reminder I think that when we reappraise &#039;danger&#039; and dissolve or step into the fear we can pop out in an amazing new reality.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree Gina. Also a powerful and inspiring reminder I think that when we reappraise &#8216;danger&#8217; and dissolve or step into the fear we can pop out in an amazing new reality.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What we can learn from astronauts when they go blind in space by Gina</title>
		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/what-we-can-learn-from-astronauts-when-they-go-blind-in-space/#comment-2404</link>
		<dc:creator>Gina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 09:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Gai, I loved this video - such a stark reminder of how great the brain is at being trained! Also a great reminder for one to exercise the &#039;anti-fear&#039; muscle - to overcome fear. As he suggests, the solution for being scared of spiders&#039; webs is to find as many of them as you can and keep walking into them - on purpose. I&#039;m putting this metaphor into practice!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Gai, I loved this video &#8211; such a stark reminder of how great the brain is at being trained! Also a great reminder for one to exercise the &#8216;anti-fear&#8217; muscle &#8211; to overcome fear. As he suggests, the solution for being scared of spiders&#8217; webs is to find as many of them as you can and keep walking into them &#8211; on purpose. I&#8217;m putting this metaphor into practice!</p>
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		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/how-empathic-are-you/#comment-2388</link>
		<dc:creator>How empathic are you? &#124; Neuroscience - Memory -...</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2014 02:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] How empathic are you?  They are:Cognitive Empathy &#8211; this is about really understanding others, how they see the world, what their &#8216;model&#8217; of the world is. Knowing how to talk and communicate with those others in such a way that leads to better performance. Emotional Empathy &#8211; where an immediate sense of what is going on for others is felt. Empathic Concern &#8211; knowing how others are thinking and feeling AND is predisposed and prepared to help.&#160; [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How empathic are you?  They are:Cognitive Empathy &ndash; this is about really understanding others, how they see the world, what their &lsquo;model&rsquo; of the world is. Knowing how to talk and communicate with those others in such a way that leads to better performance. Emotional Empathy &ndash; where an immediate sense of what is going on for others is felt. Empathic Concern &ndash; knowing how others are thinking and feeling AND is predisposed and prepared to help.&nbsp; [...]</p>
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		<link>http://www.coaching.net.nz/how-empathic-are-you/#comment-2377</link>
		<dc:creator>How empathic are you? &#124; Travail et bienveillanc...</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2014 19:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] How empathic are you?  They are:Cognitive Empathy &#8211; this is about really understanding others, how they see the world, what their &#8216;model&#8217; of the world is. Knowing how to talk and communicate with those others in such a way that leads to better performance. Emotional Empathy &#8211; where an immediate sense of what is going on for others is felt. Empathic Concern &#8211; knowing how others are thinking and feeling AND is predisposed and prepared to help.&#160; [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How empathic are you?  They are:Cognitive Empathy &ndash; this is about really understanding others, how they see the world, what their &lsquo;model&rsquo; of the world is. Knowing how to talk and communicate with those others in such a way that leads to better performance. Emotional Empathy &ndash; where an immediate sense of what is going on for others is felt. Empathic Concern &ndash; knowing how others are thinking and feeling AND is predisposed and prepared to help.&nbsp; [...]</p>
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